Is Your Significant Other Cheating On You?

Don't let your significant other get away with cheating. You don't deserve to spend another night lying awake in bed waiting for him or her to come home, unable to escape the sickening thoughts of where your lover could be and what he or she is doing. You're worth more than that. Below you can find a list of ways to find out if your man or woman is cheating.

Catch A Cheater Red-Handed

• Review your spouse's receipts, match books, condoms, phone numbers, notes, and addresses. Suspicious items left in drawers, wallets, or glove compartment can be a dead giveaway to catch a cheating spouse.
  
• Consider putting a GPS Tracking Device in your spouse's car to track his or her whereabouts. With these GPS Devices you can find out where exactly your spouse has been and for how long. Track in real-time on the Internet.
  
• Record conversations with a Digital Voice Recorder. With voice recorders as small as a stick of gum, you can place one in the glove compartment in the car without detection. This product lets you to listen to your spouse's cell phone and in-car conversations.
• Keyloggers are a popular and effective choice for tracking your spouse's online activity. With this tool you can find out who your spouse is instant messaging, what he or she is writing in e-mails, and which websites he or she is visiting.
  
• Finally, there are Sex Detection Kits such as the CheckMate Semen Detection Kit. Has he or she been having sex with someone else? Find out the truth.

Signs of Possible Cheating

• The passenger seat of your car is not in it's usual position.
  
• Stray hairs, that aren't yours, on his/her clothing.
• The scent of his/her clothing is different, or smells like a different perfume/cologne, massage oil residue, or sex.
  
• Makeup stains on his clothing, bite marks, or unexplained scratches.
  
• If he or she recently purchased an additional pager or cell phone. When he/she is with you, they turn of their phone or leave the room to make and take calls.
  
• Unexplained, repetitive charges on a mobile phone bill.
  
• An unusual number of hang-ups or wrong number calls.
  
• Uses computer alone and secretly with a demand for privacy.
  
• Loss of an interest in sex.
  
• Unexplained receipts in wallet, glove compartment, or office desk.
  
• Excessive purchases of new and different clothes.
  
• If a man: increased dependence on Viagra.
  
• Unaccounted time away from home.

How To Catch A Cheater

Is your spouse it cheating on you? Things just aren't adding up but you need the proof. Technological innovations in the Private Investigation (P.I.) market have brought the cost of spy equipment way down to where it makes sense for consumers to purchase P. I. equipment for themselves. In the past, the average person would have to go out and hire a very expensive P. I. to scour the streets for weeks and months using special, hard-to-find equipment. With no guarantee of any outcome, you could be out thousands of dollars with no piece of mind in sight. Until recently, most of these hard to find products have been only known by people in the industry. If you were lucky enough to find them, the cost of these were too much to make sense. Recently, due to increased demand and lower production costs, most of these spy products seen on your favorite TV cop show are available to average consumers.

"Infidelity is what keeps me in business," says James Tzyeski, a private investigator. "Typically a concerned spouse will call me up to get down to the bottom of a suspicion they are having. Right away, I end up going to their house when the spouse isn't home; for women I use a Sex Test, which is a Semen Detection Kit to detect sperm where it shouldn't be. If a couple isn't having sex, then when even minute traces appear, I have proof."

Cyber sex, e-mail, and chatting online have been thought to be a discreet way of conducting an affair. Although this is not physical cheating, it's often the root of bigger problems in a relationship, which could very well lead to cheating. Cyber crime expert Randy Cowell told reporters in a recent sting operation:

"Installing a Keylogger on your computer can show you everything that person is typing into that computer when you are not around. They are covert and small enough to be undetectable. Something a bit more sneaky, but perfectly legal, is the use of a Cell Phone Spy. All you need to do is take the SIM card out of a cell phone, pop it into the Cell Phone Spy and you can easily find all possible deleted messages that could be found."

Cowell demonstrated the device using his own cell phone. In a matter of minutes, he showed reporters deleted text messages.

"Watch him or her in the act!" James Tzyeski said as he showed tiny cameras that look like ordinary household items. With affordable hidden cameras and recorders making their way into the hands of consumers, using one can solidify your thoughts on infidelity with motion-activated recording using hidden wireless cameras. Nowadays, anyone can install them. Just push a button and walk away. Some look like household air fresheners or alarm clocks, but they are actually Hidden Cameras. Other types of hidden cameras include Video Over Power, that simply plug into an ordinary electrical outlet.

No one wants to think they are being cheated on. Even if you have the most faithful relationship, the idea runs through everyone's mind one time or another. Rather than starting arguments or pointing fingers, causing irreparable damage, use your instincts and a bit of P. I. technology to get you through those questionable times.